So a little while back we updated you about our second kid.

Today we had our second (and last) contact session prior to the introductions beginning next week. My first relief is that myself, my partner and the foster carers are getting on really well. I have been finding the idea of a second child got a strange concept as we just haven’t had the time to get as excited this time round (I have since spoken to a few couples who have had two or more birth children and have been assured this is very normal). Today though was the first time I looked at this little boy and thought “he is mine”. With all the hubbub of having to still care for our son as well as working and filling out endless mounds of paperwork it was likely it only hit today that this child I was holding was mine and not a friend’s- needless to say I shed a little tear. The big stuff comes next week as we begin official introductions.